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Booking Through Thursday and the question this week is something that I have pretty bad experiences with.
Do you lend your books? Are any out on loan right now? Do you have any that have been loaned to you? Do you put a time limit on these? Do you think people should make an effort to read the loaned book quickly?
I love to share my books. BUT I have learned to lend them to ONLY people I trust. Yes, I learned it the hard way. In fact, I've probably lost a few books from people who either did not give it back, or ruined it. As a book lover, I think that it is a travesty. Even if I am letting them borrow my books for free, that does not mean that they have free reign over it. In fact, I expect them to take care of it as I would take care of it. Based on previous horrible experience, I have learned to ALWAYS state my expectations before they borrow my books. I let them know right off the bat that they are MINE and not theirs.
Even if they are not paying for it and they can return it whenever, I regularly check up on it. Say, if they took out a book from me and it's been a month, I give them a quick message or call them up and let them know that I want my book back. I have had horror stories wherein my books were returned waterstained or in disrepair. In which case, I asked them to pay for it retail price or buy me the same book. Seriously. Some of my friends have tried to talk their way out of it, but I have been pretty firm about it - you return it in the same condition as when you borrowed it. I haven't lost my friends over this though. Fortunately, I don't have any books out on loan right now. After all that craziness, I have decided not to let anyone touch my books. EVER.
So, have you had any horror stories with your out on a loan books? Leave a comment below!